Saturday, July 14, 2012

Why Me??



This week started off like any other normal week until I looked at my checking account.

I was checking to see if my rent check had been taken out when I noticed a suspicious charge. It was for $10.05. Nothing too significant, but I knew that I did not make that charge. I called the bank to let them know. They had been seeing a lot of these suspicious charges lately. My card was cancelled and I was told to monitor my account for the next couple of days. Thankfully, the amount taken from my checking account wasn't a lot of money and I was able to dispute the charge so the money would be put back.

Then, about an hour or so later, a friend of mine sent me a text message asking if I had sent her an email with a link in it. That would be a big NO! I checked my email and, lo and behold, I had a spam email in my inbox from myself. A little while later, my mom asked if I had sent her an email and I told her that my account had been hacked.

So off I went to change every password that I could think of.

I don't understand why people feel the need to do this to people. Granted, they want the money from mine and many other people's accounts. I am assuming that the same is true for people trying to get access to people's information through a virus or whatever is sent through spammy emails. But it is so violating. How often are we told to make sure that our passwords are safe so no one can get access to our information, whether it is a banking account or Facebook.

Since I am still waiting for my new card, I have no easy way to get money. I could go to the bank to write a check for them to cash, but what a hassle. So my little piece of advice from this whole experience is to change your passwords!
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Thursday, July 12, 2012

Say Cheese!


I am excited to announce that Nick and I finally took part in our engagement session last weekend! It’s been a work in progress and a small song and dance to set things up, but we did it, and despite the 119 deg day, we had a lot of fun.

My amazing photographer and cousin, Elizabeth Cayton, lives and works in North Carolina. And Nick and I are from Pittsburgh (obviously). So it took some planning to set up our engagement session. But here we are – Just a little over a month before the wedding (holy shit), and we got them done.

We were able to meet half way in Washington, DC – Nick’s sister lives there, my cousin’s brother lives there – and it’s about half way for both of us. Perfect plan!  Elizabeth got into town a few days before we did and scouted out some awesome locations in Old Town Alexandria. May I say, what a gorgeous town! Cobble stone streets, gardens, great homes, brick sidewalks – it really is out of a movie!

However, it was hot – damn hot. So hot we didn’t even take Chase to be in our photos as planned because he probably would have died from heat exhaustion. Really.  And as many of you know – I already live with and am marrying the sweatiest kid alive. This 119 deg day was sheer torture for him. I, who usually “glistens,” even soaked through my first shirt by the time we changed outfits. It was bad. It was hot. None the less, we grinned our way through, and had to photogenicly try to love each other, when neither one of us wanted to be touched.

My cousin is awesome, and got some great shots, a small preview of which can be found on her Facebook page that I linked to above. Who knew being a “model” for the day could be so much fun? I am really looking forward to her shooting our wedding – and because of our killer location, I can only imagine how awesome our pictures will be.

Thank you Elizabeth! It was so nice to spend time with you – you worked you magic and managed to make Nick and I look fresh as daisies when we all know we were baked potatoes!
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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

DMB Weekend!

As you can tell, we have all been crazy, super busy lately. We all know the stresses of work are catching up with us and the weather of summer is just flying by. I am not wishing summer away by any means and I hope that I would stay like this forever, but it can't. So instead of just letting time slip through my fingers again, I have many things planned for the next 4 or 5 weekends. Most of which are weddings of friends which should be a good time, but this coming weekend is the Dave Matthews Band concert.

I have been lucky enough to see DMB before in concert, just not in Pittsburgh. So this year, we are going! And by we, I don't mean my hubby and I...I mean his best friend and his wife. Here's the story...

About three years ago, my hubby, his friend and I were just chatting and a conversation about DMB started. My hubby, who is a fan of every single other kind of music, dislikes DMB and said he would never go to a concert. His friend, who you wouldn't think would like DMB said well then I'll take her! So the deal was made. Except the next year that DMB was in town, he got married that weekend!! And then I don't believe they were in town last year so this year was our opportunity.

The night before tickets went on sale we decided to go to the Saturday concert just because of work and what not. It will just be easier. Typically it seems like they sell out really fast for the Saturday concert but now lawn seat tickets are floating around like crazy for sale!

I can't wait for Saturday now and spending time with Adam's friend and his wife (who I just adore). We are that couple that always hangs out (puke, I know).

Are you going to the DMB concert too? Let me know if you are...maybe we can meet up! Also, do you happen to know if I am allowed to carry in a cooler of water at First Niagra Pavilion?
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Monday, July 9, 2012

Once in a Lifetime Experience!

As I’ve mentioned in previous blog posts, I get to travel a lot for my “big girl” job.  Two weeks ago I was in one of my favorite cities…Seattle, WA.  This particular convention is one of the largest that I have to plan each year and it keeps me out of the ‘burgh for about eight days.  I really didn’t mind though because again, I love Seattle and as everyone back on the East Coast was boiling to death, the temperature in Seattle was a lovely 73 degrees.  Although it did sprinkle just about every day for at least 10 minutes, it was nicer than cooking to death.
Each year, the two VPs that I get to travel with always like to plan a special activity for the three of us to do.  This year I got to pick that activity and being that we were in the Pacific Northwest during June, there is only one thing I could think of to do…whale watching (June is the best time to see the transient Orca Whales).
Our Sea Plane
On our last day there, we bravely boarded a sea plane from Seattle heading towards Friday Harbor in the San Juan Islands.  When we arrived at the dock to catch the plane, I have to admit that I was scared shitless!  It was so incredibly tiny and they needed to know each person’s weight.  This determined where you sat on the plane.  Not that I felt like it made much of a difference, there were only four seats on the plane and a seat for the pilot.  But I climbed up the ladder anyways and held on for dear life.  Before I knew it, we were in the air. 

The View from the Sea Plane
The view from the air was incredible.  There were so many islands (over 400) and we flew for about 45 minutes before we started making our descent into Friday Harbor.  Again, as we were coming in for our landing, I was scared to death but surprisingly, the landing was fantastic.  In fact it was so much better than landing in a normal plane.  We got off and started walking to wear we checked in for the whale watching boat.  As we were walking, we saw a sea lion.  He was cute and we found out that his name was pop-eye.  Why?  Well, he only had one eye and wasn’t able to hunt anymore so he hung out by the docks and was hand fed by a couple that owned a bait shop.  Just seeing this sea lion got me so excited and hopeful that we would be fortunate enough to see some whales.
Pop-Eye the Sea Lion
We had a couple of hours to kill before we boarded the whale watching boat so we got a few drinks and appetizers at this cute little restaurant on the water.  Then we boarded the boat and started heading north.  On the way we saw tons and tons of sea lions, American Bald Eagles and even rams on some of the islands.  The boat personnel were super knowledgeable and were able to answer all kinds of questions and give you interesting facts along the way.  Before I knew, we had been traveling about and a half and the captain was getting information over his radio that we were nearing the area where whales were being spotted.  Everyone on the boat stood up and kept their eyes peeled.  Next thing I knew…there they were.  A pod of about 10 Orca Whales just swimming along.  It was amazing and in the top five best things that have happened my life (to date)!  The boats stay a pretty good distance away from the whales but you could see them coming to surface and diving back down.  Next thing I knew, the captain of our boat throws the emergency break on and we come to an abrupt stop.  He comes dashing out of his cabin and starts yelling “one is coming towards us”.  All of a sudden you could see the water moving and out of nowhere, there was a massive whale…right there…in front of us!!!  The guides and the captain of the boat just couldn’t believe it.  It was the closest they had ever come to one and we were fortunate enough to be on the boat.  When I say it was amazing, magical, breath taking, moving, incredible, beautiful…I’m not exaggerating.  It was all of those things and more!

The "Big Guy"
After about four hours we headed back to Friday Harbor.  We boarded our sea plane and took the 45 minute flight back to Seattle.  None of us could stop talking about it for the rest of the night and it’s now been two weeks since I’ve been back and I still can’t stop talking about it or showing the photos.  If you ever get the opportunity or are looking for a unique vacation, head out to Seattle.  You won’t be disappointed.  It’s a fun city with lots going and beautiful scenery!
PS.  The photos are some of the photos that I was able to get on the journey.  The whale photo is the big guy that was right near our boat!
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Friday, July 6, 2012

Prelude to 50


I'm working on a post about 50 Shades of Grey. I promise it will be good and not what you expect. Here is a prelude of what is to come. A must read for those married, with kids. The all-too-familiar "I do everything, you do nothing" argument. All it takes is a little perspective. Click and read. Blessed by a Blast from the Past

Laters baby!




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Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Almost There


The bridal shower: the “almost there” point leading up to your wedding. Last weekend, I was lucky enough to have a BEAUTIFUL shower hosted by my best friends in the whole wide world! Which means, we are almost there! (less than 60 days)

The bridesmaids have very important duties. Being a bridesmaid a few times myself, this, I know. And really, all women know -- showers aren’t fun. It’s something you do because you love the person you are honoring and you grin and bear your way through the toilet paper dress making, eye-spy, and a plethora of other ridiculous games.

That was my #1 stipulation for my shower – other than this, I gave no input. I wanted NO stupid games! None. I’m sorry, but as I said before, no one actually likes them, unless you happen to be the 10 year old junior bridesmaid or flower girl.

And in my case, more than 130 invites went out for the shower! How on earth do you keep that many women entertained for a couple hours? For real. In actuality, around 80 attended.
Separately, the venue was decorated amazingly – props to my MOH and BMs. I continue to receive compliments.

But brides, and brides to be – being the absolute center of attention in a room full of women, some of which you have never met in your life – is a bit intimidating. There is nothing more awkward than the moment you open a card and gift from an individual you have never met, and quickly scan the room to do a quick thank you. Now, really, I am thankful for the gift, and I appreciate you getting all my towels, but “From Jill & Jack” on a card just isn’t going to cut it. I need last names people! Make a note to yourself next time, for the bride’s sake, if you are attending a wedding shower - sign your last name (unless you happen to be the BFF).

Now, maybe for people who have had smaller showers, this won’t be a big deal, but how on earth do you get to say hello to everyone. 80 women? Sheesh! I could have spent the two hours wandering from table to table to see how everyone is doing (and perhaps meet “Jill”), but it’s impossible. I feel terrible knowing that I barely got to spend any time with my family members who made it in from out of town just for these three short hours.

Another note – watch your choice of outfit. I was super pumped to purchase a new, cute dress for the occasion, even got me some sweet, new kicks to go with it! But it is a fine art being able to finagle heavy boxes and tear through wrapping paper in 5 inch stilettos and a short dress, all whilst trying to keep your legs crossed and be a “lady.”

Opening the gifts is fun. It’s like Christmas, but only with kitchen and household appliances. And you never realized how much fun a margarita machine can be until you have one (buy one, you don’t know what you are missing).

Ladies, if you are planning a shower for a friend – get in touch with my friends for tips, they did a fabulous job. I had a family member tell me that my MOH should quit her day job and take on event planning full time! If you are a bride to be, like me, soak this day it. It’s your “almost there” point. The final countdown has begun!
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Monday, July 2, 2012

Hello Picnic Season

Driving into work this morning I was thinking how time is just flying - again. I really can’t believe it is July already and I am sure I say this every month. But for real, I feel like just last week we were worried about snow – even though that never happened this winter!
July is one of my favorite months. I love fireworks, the weather, picnics and cooking out, and the good-spirit that is typically in the air. July just makes me feel like a kid again since I was out of school and had no worries. Except, as most of you know, once you grow up, you don’t get the summer off anymore (except for teachers obviously) but even some of them work through the summer.
But with the little bit of summer that we get here in western PA, I am going to soak up the sun and fun time as much as I can, which means picnics and cookouts as often as possible.
I would like to provide some recipes that I think are great for picnics and cookouts. I am not a potato/pasta salad type of girl. I like the other staples and a variety of different sides. It should be mentioned that you want to be careful that you don’t bring someone that others may also think of (hence the potato/pasta salad). It always sucks to take a dish and have the same dish there and it’s obvious that everyone likes the other one better. If you know me, I don’t spend a lot of time in the kitchen, so these recipes don’t take long at all but are always big hits. I found links to the recipes so you can easily print and store for future picnics!
Grape Dessert - I am not the pretty dessert type of person, so I mix this all up. I also don’t put that many nuts on it. I like the taste of the grapes and yogurt blend more than the nuts.
Mini Jalapeno Wraps - My dad always makes these but be warned, depending on who makes them they can either be really spicy or not. Dad’s are always perfect!
And finallllly, Peach Sangria! Make enough to fill the water coolers that have the little spout at the end. This beverage will win over everyone. (PS- I am sure there are many varieties of this recipe out there so trial and error my friends).
Let me know what your favorite dish is to take with you during summer picnics. I am always up for a new, easy dish!
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