Friday, September 23, 2011

One for the Men- Listen Up

In case you were wondering and/or hoping, men will never understand women and vice versa. I know that is upsetting to some but as much as we try to understand each other, things get more confusing and I get more frustrated. Men are more simple than women, that is the only conclusion I have come to. So to you men, I decided to let you into a women’s mind to tell you a few things that may surprise you. Ladies, send this along to the man in your life. If you are a male, listen up!

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Women are not that hard to please. Yes, I’m serious. We will tell you how to win us over; you just have to listen better. The truth is, what will win us over changes depending on our mood. There is no reason to get frustrated, bear with us. We can’t help that we are so emotional - I know you love us for it.

- Are you a commitmentphobe? We really hate when men don’t have the balls to be upfront about this. If you are afraid of hurting her feelings by being upfront about your unwillingness, fear or whatever reason that is holding you back to commit, get over it. Be straightforward, be blunt. It is the nicest thing you can do.

- Do not string us along. If there is no hope that you will change your ways be completely honest. It is up to us if we will stay in the situation or move on.

-Just as men make jokes that they don’t want an old maid, neither do we! A man who is camped out on the couch with a bowl of Doritos resting on his large beer belly is not appealing [to most of us].

Truthfully, all women are different - we are individuals. If you want to better understand us, just ask. When we answer, listen. We might teach you a thing or two. Share This Post
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