Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Blah





Blah is really how I have been feeling lately. Blah at home, blah at work, just blah.


I have been busy, which I think is contributing to this blah feeling. I have been so busy that I haven't been able to do what I want to do, which sometimes is absolutely nothing. But this weekend, I have no plans and I am looking forward to it so much. I just have to get through the rest of the week, which is more busyness.


I have to clean tonight because I am having people from my church over tomorrow night. Even if people weren't coming over, my to-do list is still looming over me. If I want to take advantage of doing nothing this weekend, I need to cross some of those things off of the list. Of course, there are two more days left of the work week. And busyness is there as well. But only 16 hours left of the week. I think I might be able to make it through.


So I will muddle through the next couple of days toward the weekend, and look forward to leisurely drinking my coffee on Saturday morning.

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Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Fashion is made to become unfashionable


After all this “what not to wear” talk, I think it’s time we take a look into clothing items we cannot live without. We all have our favorite pair of jeans, that stretched out t-shirt from high school, the most comfy sweat pants in the world, the worn-out/worn-in flip flops that BETTER make it through another summer. We all have our favorite items, our favorite brands, our go-to outfit for the weekend. Here are a few of my favorite items that are essential to my wardrobe:

1. Lucky Brand jeans – they are my favorite brand and fit me best. No crack-showing here! They are adorable, long-lasting and comfortable. I cannot live without them. I have a bazillion pairs, but not one that I like more than the others.
2. My North Face fleece – I wear this jacket year-round. I have it in multiple colors too. It’s versatile, warm, and the perfect thing to throw on as you are running out the door.
3. Old Navy flip flops – these colorful, rubber, $5 flops are a must-have for summer (and into the spring and fall too when you can keep wearing them). So many colors to choose from, you can dress them up, dress them down and wear them until they break. AND at $5, you can afford to buy yourself a fresh pair every year!
4. My UGGS – truthfully, I wish it was appropriate to wear them all the time… even with dress pants at work. They regulate my foot temp, are ideal for throwing on at the last minute, and like the Old Navy flip flops, come in so many colors! Anyone who owns UGGS knows how much you love them.
5. Long length, v-neck t-shirts – these are my FAVORITE. I wear them all the time. They have to be long. I hate pulling on and stretching out t-shirts when you feel like they are a “little too short.” Victoria’s Secret carries them, you can even find them at Target, Old Navy and even your local TJMAXX. Winter or summer, they are perfect to layer with and go with everything – including my Lucky Brand jeans.
6. Pearl earrings – EVERY girl must own a pair of pearl earrings. Real or fake (boys, buy your ladies some REAL ones), they are the perfect addition to any outfit you are wearing. They look nice, and give the right amount of “I’m trying, while not really trying.”
7. My Lucky Brand purse – I think we might be starting to see a trend here. I’m a brand loyalist. I really do enjoy their purses. They are real leather, affordable and last a long time. My favorite purse I’ve had close to three years, and I carry it nearly every day. It’s still in great shape – and I’m not easy on purses.
8. My Pepper’s sunglasses – My favorites are my lime green aviators. If you know me, you know my glasses.
9. Tanks – beaters, camis, racer-backs, it doesn’t matter. Tank tops in various colors, shapes and textures should be a staple in every girl’s wardrobe. Again, I prefer mine longer to avoid the accidental belly showing from shirt creepage. But they have many uses… worn alone, worn as a layer under a t-shirt or jacket, worn as a cover up, etc.
10. My baseball hat – Since I was in high school I have owned this white Aeropostale hat. It’s simple, and most importantly, made for a girl’s head. I wear hats a decent amount. They are the perfect go-to when you are having a bad hair day, have a sweet pimple on your forehead you are looking to cover up, or if you are like me, get terrible helmet hair after riding a couple horses. I’m not saying this look should be worn EVERY day, but a cute baseball hat is a nice way to change up your look every now and then.

What we can all take in from our past couple blog posts is that everyone has their own unique style. Many of you reading this may HATE hats, and that is ok… we are all entitled to our opinions. And what works for you may not work for everyone else. That is the cool thing about society today, people are much more accepting of wardrobe choices and we are all encouraged to “embrace our individuality.” However – NO ONE should ever wear socks with heels/wedges ;)

Fashion is architecture: it is a matter of proportions - Coco Chanel

Remember that, ladies :)

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Monday, April 9, 2012

By Request: Things Women Shouldn't [Ever] Wear



We had great feedback on our personal Facebook pages about Friday's blog and were asked to do the female version (by a male reader!) So I am going to oblige and do a list of 5 things women shouldn't ever wear. Mind you, I am saying women because little girls might be able to get away with some of these things (although doubtful). The list could probably go on and on and could branch out in many sections including ridiculous ways to wear your hair (get rid of the scrunchies), things to not put on your body (glitter) and if you are going to wear those shoes, at least go to a strip club and get some tips (heels that are 10 times too high and too glittery). Please feel free to add a comment about the things you don't think women should wear in the comments section. I would really like to hear what else you see around town!





1. Tiny Short Shorts: As soon as the sun comes out in the spring, you know you are bound to see these come out of the closet. And it is embarrassing when you are walking around and the hoochie in front of you had both of her ass cheeks hanging out of her shorts that are about impossible to even wear underwear underneath. Put some clothes on!





2. Pants with words on the butt: You know what pants I am talking about, and if you have to wear pants that say it on the butt, then it probably isn't true. Sure, they might be really comfy, but don't wear them out in public. It is the same as the ratty t-shirt of your boyfriends that you love to wear around the house on a Sunday...you do not dare wear it outside!





3. Leggings under shorts: I don't know who decided this was cute but it freaks me out. First off, leggings can only go with certain outfits and your dress or shirt must be long enough to cover your butt because in my opinion, no one's butt looks good in leggings. But then to put a pair of shorts over them??!! Come on!





4. Tube tops: These come out at the same time as the short shorts. And there is no doubt in my mind that women wear them together (and typically they are just busting out all over the place anyways). Throw the tube tops away and buy a REAL shirt. They are not attractive on anyone, whether you have a great body or not.





5. Overalls: They might be great for painting, or bailing hay, but don't wear these out in public. The little child look is not cute, especially if your hair is also in pigtails (which is another thing grown women shouldn't wear). Just wear jeans...jeans that actually fit and aren't too tight or too loose.





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Friday, April 6, 2012

Things Men Shouldn’t [Ever] Wear

Ever hear the phrase, “the clothes don’t make the man”? This may be true but there are some men who get this totally wrong. I don’t expect a guy to be a GQ centerfold, however, it doesn’t hurt to use clothing to highlight your attractiveness. A woman can definitely help a man dress, for those who don’t listen or don’t have that sort of help, some end up wearing useless, ugly garments and accessories that should be banned, locked up and torched. Some guys even wear what is listed below as if they are the latest fashion trend - so sad. Poor guys can be fashion disasters without even realizing.

Here we go. Men, do not, I repeat DO NOT wear…

Denim shirts – At work we have a closet full of promotional materials as well as logoed shirts, etc. you get the idea. Anyway, I opened the one closet and out poured light wash denim shirts. You all know exactly what I am talking about. Why might I ask do men think that this is a good look? It is not the 80’s anymore. My favorite is when guys wear button up jean shirts and jean pants; it is like a jean onesie for an adult. Please, do not wear button up denim shirts and especially no cutoff-sleeve jean jackets. It is not a good look.

Track suits/jogging suits: You know who should be wearing jogging suits? People who are jogging – even then it is questionable. When I see these, it screams grandma/grandpa or the Sopranos.

Hawaiian Shirts: I have not seen a single man who looks good in one of these. Usually I picture a man wearing one of these who has a bit of a beer gut and one of the buttons is usually about to bust. These are the perfect shirts for a luau, BBQ party or a weekend getaway to the beach, ONLY if you are about 55+ and living on an exotic island with lots of sand and palm trees. If you are any younger and do not live on an exotic, sandy beach, I advise you to light it with your tiki torch.

Saggy pants: I cannot stand this “look”. I do not want to see anyone’s underwear with their entire ass sticking out. It is even worse when you see someone’s boxers, basketball shorts, etc. and then their saggy jeans with a belt on. Clearly the belt is not helping. Don’t take this the wrong way, I don’t want a guy to have tight skinny jeans either, there needs to be a happy medium, find jeans that are the perfect fit where you don’t necessarily need a belt to hold them up.

Turtlenecks: The only man who could sport a turtle neck is Steve Jobs. Is it too harsh to say that turtle necks tend to give off the super creep vibe? There is a reason that turtle necks haven’t made a comeback, there is no way any designer can make these look good and fashionable. Don’t even think about it.

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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Looking For A Good Time?


I sure am! To piggyback off of Katie's post from yesterday, I need more time. Everything lately has become routine, necessary and downright boring!

Don't get me wrong, I'm crazy busy. Stupid busy. And I'm not sure what I can scrape off my plate. And though I love being busy - thrive on it really - it has gotten out of control. I am forgetting to do things...important things. And the things I actually remember to do, I rush through to get done to move onto the next. Even my workouts have become another item on the to-do list instead of a chance to escape my insane reality.

I live and die by my to-do list. I love to cross things off as I get them done, but lately the the list is out of control. It has taken on a life of its own. And I fully expect it to slide out of the drawer and walk out the door pissed off that I'm not doing anything about its agenda items! Though, this would give me free time!

Laundry. Yardwork ('tis the season). Easter. Birthdays. Dinner. Dishes. Shopping (even this has become a chore...and I'm a chick who LOVES to shop). Cleaning. Kids. Husband. Dogs. Work. Work. Work!

I need a vacation, but that isn't going to happen anytime soon. I need a way to interject fun into my everyday. I'm usually good at this. Finding the silver lining. Taking a step back and a deep breath. But I'm overwhelmed, overworked and overstressed! And I'm too tired at the end of any given day to do my nails, call a friend, go out for a drink.

So I've decided to extend my to do list and schedule time to chill. Five minutes here to send a quick email to a friend. Ten minutes there to go throw the ball to the dog in the yard and enjoy the sunshine. Staying up a bit later to read for a few minutes--not related to work or children or housework.

Wish me luck! I'm either gonna find a way to chill or I'm gonna go crazy. Share This Post
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Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Why Aren't The Weekends 5 Days Long?


Today was my first day back to work after a long weekend. My mom and I surprised my brother by showing up for his surprise 30th birthday party in Wisconsin. There was a lot of anticipation for the surprise by me, my mom and my brother's girlfriend, Katie. But we were able to pull it off without him knowing.

My brother is so hard to surprise. He usually can pick up a gift, shake it and guess correctly what it is. It is really annoying. :) But the look on his face definitely convinced me that he had no clue. That is the best feeling.

Since my mom and I live far away from Wisconsin, we don't get to peek into his life very often. We just hear names, but don't know faces. I was able to visit my brother more often when I lived in Illinois, but since I have moved to Pennsylvania, I have not been back up there.

We also met Katie's family for the first time. They couldn't have been more welcoming. Her mom greeted us with hugs when we walked into the restaurant before my brother's arrived for his party. It was such a nice feeling.

It is hard to see such a great weekend come to end, but now only 3 more days until the next one!
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Tick Tock, Tick Tock

Funny how things work out sometimes, and how sometimes - before you know it - the day has slipped away. Welp, that's what happened to me yesterday. I dropped the ball. It was my day to blog, and I just never had five whole minutes to myself to do so. I know I have talked about this time and time before – the concept that as you get older, the days get shorter, the years fly by… and it’s true! Maybe for me, it is the fact this this year is jammed-packed with exciting/life changing events.

Priorities and time management. I’m struggling. This is usually an area in which I have always done well. I did the most important things first and the least important things last. Why now is this so hard? Is everything THAT important that I can’t prioritize?

Work isn’t slowing down, wedding plans are mounting, house projects are never-ending. The nice weather is here, so that means more riding, training for this marathon relay and getting exterior house work done.

There are only so many hours in the day, and clearly not enough for my liking (namely on weekends). I am in desperate need of some “me time.” Really, all I want is a Sunday to lie in my pajamas and catch up on American Idol and maybe paint my nails. Is that too much to ask? Apparently.

I need more time to do all of my fun wedding crafts. I need more time to clean the house and organize our basement. I need more time to plant flowers outside our landscape-lacking home.

I need more time. But how can I do this? How do all of you other working wives and/or bachelorettes do this? Heck, how do any of our male readers do this?

Truthfully, life is so jammed-packed that I asked Nick to take the lead baking the Cinnamon Toast Crunch cupcakes last Friday night for our friend’s going-away party. Now, he did an awesome job (minus the icing I had to re-make), but the cupcakes were the sh*t, none the less. But Nick shouldn’t have to turn into Betty Crocker because I’m pressed for time. I’m lucky he is capable enough to help me out quite often, but I STILL need more hours in the day. (PS – these were AMAZING, and IF you have TIME, you should make them)

Sadly, we won’t even have time to visit our new niece until mid-April. This makes me sad. But just look at this face – we need to meet her!

So much to do, so little time.

4 months until the wedding! 33 days until the marathon! 5 days until Easter!

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